Anonymous asked: Is someone being played when a guy kisses her and then ignores her a day afterwards? Tells her that hes not ready for whatever the heck it was but says he still likes her and stuff? Why do guys do that? Damn it.
Well, he could be telling the truth… maybe he thought he was ready, took the risk and figured that he wasn’t? No matter what the truth is, he shouldn’t have done that. If he’s unsure of his feelings, I think he really should’ve talked to you first. I mean, if he’s comfortable enough to kiss you, he definitely should have talked to you first. Then again, maybe he wants to see if you’ll wait for him. I suggest you both discuss both parties’ feelings and then if you agree to wait, then do it. But, if he ends up dating someone else and you’re left hanging, then forget about it, and just remember - at least you didn’t end up with someone like that in the end. I think guys like to seem they’ve got things in order; not shaken up by things too much… until they mess up and realize they don’t know what they’re doing haha. Who knows, really! Everyone reacts to situations different! Hope that helped! It’s not fair to be dragged along and the whole time, being convinced you were both on the same page! I wish you love and strength :)
Anonymous asked: Is someone being played when a guy kisses her and then ignores her a day afterwards? Tells her that hes not ready for whatever the heck it was but says he still likes her and stuff? Why do guys do that? Damn it.
Well, he could be telling the truth… maybe he thought he was ready, took the risk and figured that he wasn’t? No matter what the truth is, he shouldn’t have done that. If he’s unsure of his feelings, I think he really should’ve talked to you first. I mean, if he’s comfortable enough to kiss you, he definitely should have talked to you first. Then again, maybe he wants to see if you’ll wait for him. I suggest you both discuss both parties’ feelings and then if you agree to wait, then do it. But, if he ends up dating someone else and you’re left hanging, then forget about it, and just remember - at least you didn’t end up with someone like that in the end. I think guys like to seem they’ve got things in order; not shaken up by things too much… until they mess up and realize they don’t know what they’re doing haha. Who knows, really! Everyone reacts to situations different! Hope that helped! It’s not fair to be dragged along and the whole time, being convinced you were both on the same page! I wish you love and strength :)
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chakriya said:
People often get lost with what feels right, to what is right. Protect your heart girl.
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